cuddles (hate that word) hugs, are allowed. by me. heads on shoulders not ok. sitting next to me so we touch is ok if i have space on other side. if not. then its not ok. i can kiss you but you can’t kiss me. unless i tell you to, which is kind of the same thing. Holding hands is usually ok. but mine are always clammy. waist down, knee up is just no. unless i am mega comfortable and relaxed with you and i know/like/trust you. my neck is off limits. i don’t like heads near me/on my lap. so yeah…